Boundaries
Know this:
People will tell you the importance of setting boundaries.
People will tell you that you should set boundaries.
But people will not like it when the boundaries you set end up affecting them.
This practice of setting boundaries is necessary. It is a radical act of self-love and self-preservation.
But this journey of drawing lines in the sand in pursuit of your own ultimate harmony will cause divide. It will bring adversity. It will ignite backlash.
And you must be prepared to lose people along the way.